I have never been shy about sex. I talk about it a lot. I enjoy positive sexual relationships. I believe that humans are one of very few animals in the world that have sex for recreation and not procreation.
Sex for human, as I believe, is about intimacy and love. It is a need. Not just a physical need, but also an emotional need.
So when my fried shared an article titled “Is Sex A Human Right?“, I say to myself – of course! The article talked about disable people having rights to have sex. Why shouldn’t disable people have the right to get access to love and intimacy?
Sex is only part of emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs. There is nothing quite as close with someone until you have sex with them. Nothing is more vulnerable than when you have sex with someone. Who would go naked in front of someone if you don’t trust them?
Having positive sex is also important in any relationships. It is not about how good the sex it is, it is about the intimacy. It is about that desire to be with someone, and be close with someone. Being told you are amazing and being appreciated.
It is therefore inhumane to deny people to have access to that intimacy and love. Turn to the person you love and just tell them how much you enjoy being with them. Sex is not dirty. It is a very beautiful thing.