Thanking the media, I have had enough publicity over the last short while. The Dragon babies are definitely a massive thing.
The Dragon Babies, which are babies born in the year of Dragon, create much hype overseas in the Greater China. (See Year of the Dragon boom threatens one-child rule and Dragon baby fever taking hold at fertility centers). All the beds and midwives are in high demand, and undoubtedly this add pressure on the social system including education.
Having a child, for me, is not a Year of the Dragon auspicious superstitous practice. If you have read my previous posts, you would have learnt that I have been involved with the documentary called “Both Worlds”, looking t 1.5/2nd Generation Kiwis. My story is about my journey to find a partner.
I have been single since 2008. Been a very long time. I am just a girl who wants to find someone to share my loniness with, to share my ups and downs, and for me to throw a tantrum with.
I am just a girl who want to find love, and try (t0o) hard to be normal. I was over the moon yesterday when my friend told me she met a guy on the plane to Melbourne about how amazing I am and I am a role model and everything he wishes for. What girl wouldn’t be flattered? As tough as I look, this is what I want and too scared to ask! Don’t want to be seen as begging for love!
It is crazy to think it is not okay for me to be ambitious and get the things I want. The stories in the media is a little “out there” and extreme, but isn’t it normal that everyone have crazy thoughts from time to time?
I am really enjoying the crazy media attention over the last few days, more so the creepy emails, tweets, messages that I receive. This was probably more interesting than checking out all the online dating sites.
PS: I am not a desperate woman trying to find any sperm donor. I am looking for love. Not stalkers.
I just want to say: good on you! Don’t let any of the criticism get you down! All the best in your endeavour! We Kiwis can be a bit too judgemental at times, and few are open to other ideals and viewpoints. Go you!